To Whom It May Concern

This is for all of those that either are having a hard time in life
with things that they are holding on too, so tightly that it hurts, be
it a possession or a person but most likely it’s a person. This is also
for those that are letting others hold on to you so tightly but don’t
want to give a chance to see what may happen. Either way everyone is
being stupid by the choice that we all make.

Those who know others are holding on the hopes of getting something
more then you are willing to offer. This where love needs to be first
but what is the last part of love . . . TRUTH, if not it is a bit rude.
Because people don’t know what your intentions are. You can be spending
all your time with them and you know that they want more but you not
will to give that to them. Now I am not saying you need to let them go
just tell them the honest truth. So don’t say one thing and never
follow through that is also a bit rude but for others it is a false
sense of hope. But if you tell them and they don’t believe you then
stop and let them go and just tell them the whole truth and let them
deal with it. But once you make that choice I just hope and pray that
you don’t realize what you had until it is too late and it’s gone.

To those that are holding on let go and know that you’re way better for
putting the effort out. Until the truth is out then keep on hoping but,
don’t wait to long because there is a point where you can hope on a
person to much so long that it turns to disappointment. Then it just
starts and continues to hurt till we learn to let go. But just know
that you’re giving someone your most important commodity you time and
if others don’t want it then it is their loss and it is not just the
time physically spent but time in your thoughts. So this is where we
need to let go and only put that much time and investment to God and
place all your hopes on Him alone because He is not gone but already
waiting for us right now to come to Him

So either side of the fence please place God first that way less likely
you will get hurt or hurt someone. Because the first part of love is
patience and the last part of love is truth. So if you really love
yourself then you would love others as you love yourself. Thank you for
reading this. Thank you for dying a little for me by reading this,
because I died in experience to write this as being on both sides of
the fence. Take care and God Bless.

T.J. Sinsay